What was he thinking

With only 2 weeks left before the move the oldest one has decided that he would rather return to Virginia and go to a community college. I knwo it is all about a girl but he is throwing his life away. He has the grades that if the applied now he would get in to the winter quarter at Ohio State one of the best colleges in the country. And he wants to go into the medical field. Ok, Ohio State is one of the top colleges for medical. What is he thinking? He is not. Please God just tell me it will be ok.I just hope that he will change his mind before he turns 18 because the girlfriend is only 16 and all heck can break loose. His father is ready to kill him and I don't want that to happen. I just want my family back HOME!!